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SHINEIKA
&
NATE

July 3rd 2026

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IT IS HAPPENING!

WE ARE GETTING MARRIED!

July 3rd 2026

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Location

Venue: Aria Wedding & Banquet

Address: 45 Murphy Rd, Prospect, CT 06712

Parking: Available on-site

Ceremony

4:00 pm - Aria Chapel

 

 Our wedding ceremony is the most intimate and sacred moment of our union. It is a time for us to honor God, center our love, and join our lives in a way that is rooted in faith, gratitude, and purpose. We look forward to sharing this blessed moment with those closest to our hearts.

Cocktail Hour

5:00 pm

Party

7:00 pm -  Grand Ballroom

OUR LOVE STORY

How we met

We believe we met by God’s grace. Nate only applied to Gordon, while Shineika did not plan to attend at all. Through the Clarendon Honors Program and prayer, what felt unplanned became divine alignment. We met during orientation in 2017 as student athletes, balancing demanding schedules that naturally drew us together.

Through a shared class and deep conversations about faith, justice, and the world, our bond grew into a strong, intentional friendship. We knew each other fully, our struggles, fears, and dreams, and chose to protect that connection even when others saw something more.

Over time, through prayer and shared leadership, God quietly shaped our friendship into a foundation for love, a partnership rooted in trust, purpose, and God’s gentle leading.

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Fast forward to

In January 2024, Shineika checked in on Nate for the New Year, leading to an all night FaceTime that reopened their connection. After a brief lull, they reunited in March at a wedding, picking up effortlessly where they left off. In April, Nate reached out about a book Shineika had shared, and their conversations turned thoughtful and light, centered on growth, faith, and reflection.

In early May, Nate traveled from Boston to New London to see the life Shineika had built. He met her family, church, and community, and quietly imagined a future there. When Nate came to visit, Shineika had no expectation beyond friendship. His honesty about his feelings completely caught her off guard and became one of the most surprising moments of her life. She asked for time to pray and reflect.

One month later, Nate asked Shineika to be his girlfriend.

What began as an unlikely friendship became a love rooted in purpose, patience, and God’s gentle leading.

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The proposal

Nate had been carefully planning the proposal for months, adjusting details along the way. One morning, Shineika called him with a surprising revelation,she had dreamt about when he would propose. Her intuition was spot on, and Nate had to change his plans to keep the moment a surprise.

With the help of Shineika’s closest friends, her family, and Nate’s family, everything came together over the July 4th weekend. Nate had chosen a ring crafted by the same jeweler who made his mother’s and grandmother’s rings, weaving their family legacy into this new chapter. While the women enjoyed a girls’ outing, the men and Shineika’s friends prepared the setting: the Connecticut College Arboretum, followed by a dinner at the Thames Club,the very place where their romantic journey began.

That evening, Shineika dressed for what she thought was a “family dinner with photos before.” But the elegance of her outfit hinted that she knew something more was in store. Nate, his brother, and his mom drove with her to the arboretum. As they arrived, his brother cleverly pretended to leave his phone behind, giving Nate and Shineika a moment alone.

Walking down the main entrance, Shineika was greeted with a trail of photos capturing their relationship, leading to a breathtaking setup overlooking flowers and the pond. There, Nate poured out his heart once again, dropped to one knee, and asked Shineika to marry him.

She said yes.

In that instant, Nate’s groomsmen, who had encouraged him to take the leap just a year earlier, emerged from behind the scenes, cameras in hand to capture the joy. The celebration continued with family and friends at the Thames Club, bringing their love story full circle to the place where it all began.

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One more thing

Black Tie Attire Required – Come Dressed in Your Most Formal and Elegant Evening Wear.

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WE HOPE YOU
CAN JOIN US!

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Hotel Blocks

We have reserved a room block to make travel easy and to offer our guests a discounted rate. Please be sure to book your reservation using the provided link by May 18, 2025. The hotel is conveniently located just 7 minutes from our venue and easily accessible.

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